Lists that make us feel better

Here is one I made earlier just to make me feel better. Do you ever do this? I always think (when another one fails) that at least I can refine my list of things I do and don't want in someone. Felt sad tonight. I know it will pass, but still.

What I want:

Adventurous

Travelled and up for more

As liquid as I am, or more

Fun and sparky

Energetic with a calm underlying aura - a bit like the sea

A depth that keeps me interested

A self assurity that calms me

A love that warms me (doesn't scare me)

A good heart

Emotionally aware and available

Sensitive but still manly when it matters

An amazing kisser

Good in bed

An appreciation/understanding of my life 

ditto pro activeness

Attractive to me

Logical in some ways

Intelligent, questioning, fighting, pursuing 

What I don't want:

Non adventurous

Non travelled

Staid and dull. sofa sitting

Pessimistic

Downer inducing

Too simple

Emotionally unaware and kind of unavailable

A closed heart

Not very loving

Too macho

Too matter of fact/black and white

Too sensitive or crazy arty

A lazy kisser

Lazy in bed

A resentment of my pro activeness

Any resentment of my life and how I have to live it

Accepting, ignoring, giving in, sitting around